Why is it so difficult to change ourselves for better?
Why do we resist change even after knowing that change is constant?
Why should we always be under constant scrutinity to check if we r on d right track?
Why is it that our heart is attracted towads d one who gives d maximum amount of pain?
Why do we care for each other even after knowing that no one can be trusted?
The answer can be either of d two-
1. We ourselves dont know whats best for us
OR
2. Love!
We need to figure out what amount of love is appropriate for us.
We need to figure out whether its our ego that is important or whether our self respect.
We need to figure out this before its too late..
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And d quickest way to figure this out by observation , experience and self learning!
This post is all bout the possibilities of avoiding incorrect decision making and also bout possibility of damage control as well!!
Showing posts with label My philosophy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label My philosophy. Show all posts
Monday, March 14, 2011
Friday, February 18, 2011
Bharosa rakh bhai...! (trust me brother)
A shooting star from the sky is mysterious. No one knows whether it came from heaven or originated from hell. No one knows if its good or bad. No one can ever know if their wish wil be fulfilled if they make one just after seeing a shooting star.
Yet we believe that its a good omen. Yet we believe that it wil fulfill our desires. It simply means d things or person about whom we know nothing, are considered more trustworthy. We question our dear ones a number of times for something that we assume according to our sensibilities. A shooting star is a wonderful sight from a distance but just go near it..;) it may make u feel like sitting in a furnace. But d persons who r close to our heart r difficult to trust as in case of a book, which is difficult to read when too close, but from a distance its perfectly readable. This is d dilemma that everyone faces in life. To trust or not to trust is always a question which does not have a straight answer. The question is whether you r ready to bear d pain of a probable breach of trust. So people generate their own ways. They say "i trust u partially" this is even worst then non-trust. This wil land u in double-trouble n you may loose out on something that you deserved.
For example- the shooting star can either be trusted or not trusted but it wont make a difference even if we dont. But if we trust it to fulfill our desires n secretly fear that it may not, that results into double-whammy. You stay into d grip of fear all d time n if wish is granted, it does not bring happiness .. It brings just a sigh of relief. So d wish was fulfiled but u stil remain unsatisfied as you could not taste d icecream as you were scared of cough n could .. So u take a medicine as a protection n finally manage to take one slice but d medicine made d taste even more dreadful:-P:-D
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So i say.. Trust is always 100% or their is no trust at all. You cannot trust a person 99%. That wud come under d category of non trust. So always have d balls to trust someone COMPLETELY. And its not in case of your lover or friend or companion.. But it also applies to yourself. Trust yourself completely n never doubt ur ability. If YOU cannot trust Yourself, you cannot trust others. DONT LOOK OUT FOR SHOOTING STARS.. Be A SHOOTING STAR N FULFILL D WISH OF THOSE WHO MATTER TO YOU D MOST :) :) :)
Yet we believe that its a good omen. Yet we believe that it wil fulfill our desires. It simply means d things or person about whom we know nothing, are considered more trustworthy. We question our dear ones a number of times for something that we assume according to our sensibilities. A shooting star is a wonderful sight from a distance but just go near it..;) it may make u feel like sitting in a furnace. But d persons who r close to our heart r difficult to trust as in case of a book, which is difficult to read when too close, but from a distance its perfectly readable. This is d dilemma that everyone faces in life. To trust or not to trust is always a question which does not have a straight answer. The question is whether you r ready to bear d pain of a probable breach of trust. So people generate their own ways. They say "i trust u partially" this is even worst then non-trust. This wil land u in double-trouble n you may loose out on something that you deserved.
For example- the shooting star can either be trusted or not trusted but it wont make a difference even if we dont. But if we trust it to fulfill our desires n secretly fear that it may not, that results into double-whammy. You stay into d grip of fear all d time n if wish is granted, it does not bring happiness .. It brings just a sigh of relief. So d wish was fulfiled but u stil remain unsatisfied as you could not taste d icecream as you were scared of cough n could .. So u take a medicine as a protection n finally manage to take one slice but d medicine made d taste even more dreadful:-P:-D
.
So i say.. Trust is always 100% or their is no trust at all. You cannot trust a person 99%. That wud come under d category of non trust. So always have d balls to trust someone COMPLETELY. And its not in case of your lover or friend or companion.. But it also applies to yourself. Trust yourself completely n never doubt ur ability. If YOU cannot trust Yourself, you cannot trust others. DONT LOOK OUT FOR SHOOTING STARS.. Be A SHOOTING STAR N FULFILL D WISH OF THOSE WHO MATTER TO YOU D MOST :) :) :)
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