Beggars dont have choices. All they have is the passion for their job. They dont eat properly or sleep properly because its a necessity of their job. They follow the dresscode properly and they are very strict about the confidentiality of their job profile. As a gentleman, we should never ask them how much they earn. They work in their predefined limitations and still get the best out of it. They never take any weekoffs but instead work harder on holidays!! They maintain a balance between the professional and personal life perfectly. While working they keep their ego aside and focus solely on the job.
We have so much to learn from them and if we succeed to copy even few of the above qualities in our 'classy' jobs. . . Wont we be millionaires ???
Think about it . . .
Tuesday, April 5, 2011
Monday, March 14, 2011
Decision making.
Why is it so difficult to change ourselves for better?
Why do we resist change even after knowing that change is constant?
Why should we always be under constant scrutinity to check if we r on d right track?
Why is it that our heart is attracted towads d one who gives d maximum amount of pain?
Why do we care for each other even after knowing that no one can be trusted?
The answer can be either of d two-
1. We ourselves dont know whats best for us
OR
2. Love!
We need to figure out what amount of love is appropriate for us.
We need to figure out whether its our ego that is important or whether our self respect.
We need to figure out this before its too late..
.
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And d quickest way to figure this out by observation , experience and self learning!
This post is all bout the possibilities of avoiding incorrect decision making and also bout possibility of damage control as well!!
Why do we resist change even after knowing that change is constant?
Why should we always be under constant scrutinity to check if we r on d right track?
Why is it that our heart is attracted towads d one who gives d maximum amount of pain?
Why do we care for each other even after knowing that no one can be trusted?
The answer can be either of d two-
1. We ourselves dont know whats best for us
OR
2. Love!
We need to figure out what amount of love is appropriate for us.
We need to figure out whether its our ego that is important or whether our self respect.
We need to figure out this before its too late..
.
.
And d quickest way to figure this out by observation , experience and self learning!
This post is all bout the possibilities of avoiding incorrect decision making and also bout possibility of damage control as well!!
BIG B!
Life sometimes gifts you such wonderful persons that you wonder .. Am i really so special??
One such person is sent into my life .. The name is Vyas, Sanjay Vyas! A.k.a SANJU!!
A Wonderful personality . Currently lives in Jodhpur and he is 6ft 2 inch. A dream for majority of girls but this person is not much into flirting. Now i say, such a waste of resource :-P.
He's my big bro and he is extremely talented in writing poetry. Sings fairly decent n improving day-by-day. No wonder he features in my blog. Emotional to the core. Benefitial for people who know how to use people. His life revolves around his family n Me!
He juggles his wants n family wants day n night with added difficulty of criticisms but has always displayed his charismatic smile come what may..
I love him.. From d core.. N even from d sides as well ;-)
One such person is sent into my life .. The name is Vyas, Sanjay Vyas! A.k.a SANJU!!
A Wonderful personality . Currently lives in Jodhpur and he is 6ft 2 inch. A dream for majority of girls but this person is not much into flirting. Now i say, such a waste of resource :-P.
He's my big bro and he is extremely talented in writing poetry. Sings fairly decent n improving day-by-day. No wonder he features in my blog. Emotional to the core. Benefitial for people who know how to use people. His life revolves around his family n Me!
He juggles his wants n family wants day n night with added difficulty of criticisms but has always displayed his charismatic smile come what may..
I love him.. From d core.. N even from d sides as well ;-)
Friday, March 4, 2011
Puzzled n stumped!
I found myself in a crowded room. There was electricity flowin through my body.. At the same time, i was feeling cold!
I looked around for something suspicious but all i could find was humans like me. Some of them were staring at me as if i have something that they wanted. But i knew i had nothing to offer. I closed my eyes n i felt i have achieved self-enlightenment! I always had to TRY keepin all d thoughts away whenever i used to meditate but this time, it was effortless. All i could see was complete darkness with an acute ray of light. I opened my eyes n my eyes were heavy as if i have travelled ages in those few moments. I checked things around me n all i could find was materialstic stuff. I still did not know what was i searching for or what was i tryin to remember. It seemed like all d non-essential memories were deleted from my brain. I was feeling better by every moment passing by. I saw others were checking their watches n some were murmuring something. I could not understand what they were saying as it was chanted with lighting speed.
But before i could come to a conclusion, another human appeared from nowwhere with a devil's smile holding a bunch of papers in d hand!!
Shit!! Shit shit shit!! M in d examination hall n those were the question papers. Now everything wat happened before made sense! I m screwed! Gotta study now, or else the only option i wud have after my results wud be either politician or Yoga guru!!
Catch u later.. Let me study for d remaining seconds left!!
I looked around for something suspicious but all i could find was humans like me. Some of them were staring at me as if i have something that they wanted. But i knew i had nothing to offer. I closed my eyes n i felt i have achieved self-enlightenment! I always had to TRY keepin all d thoughts away whenever i used to meditate but this time, it was effortless. All i could see was complete darkness with an acute ray of light. I opened my eyes n my eyes were heavy as if i have travelled ages in those few moments. I checked things around me n all i could find was materialstic stuff. I still did not know what was i searching for or what was i tryin to remember. It seemed like all d non-essential memories were deleted from my brain. I was feeling better by every moment passing by. I saw others were checking their watches n some were murmuring something. I could not understand what they were saying as it was chanted with lighting speed.
But before i could come to a conclusion, another human appeared from nowwhere with a devil's smile holding a bunch of papers in d hand!!
Shit!! Shit shit shit!! M in d examination hall n those were the question papers. Now everything wat happened before made sense! I m screwed! Gotta study now, or else the only option i wud have after my results wud be either politician or Yoga guru!!
Catch u later.. Let me study for d remaining seconds left!!
Friday, February 18, 2011
Bharosa rakh bhai...! (trust me brother)
A shooting star from the sky is mysterious. No one knows whether it came from heaven or originated from hell. No one knows if its good or bad. No one can ever know if their wish wil be fulfilled if they make one just after seeing a shooting star.
Yet we believe that its a good omen. Yet we believe that it wil fulfill our desires. It simply means d things or person about whom we know nothing, are considered more trustworthy. We question our dear ones a number of times for something that we assume according to our sensibilities. A shooting star is a wonderful sight from a distance but just go near it..;) it may make u feel like sitting in a furnace. But d persons who r close to our heart r difficult to trust as in case of a book, which is difficult to read when too close, but from a distance its perfectly readable. This is d dilemma that everyone faces in life. To trust or not to trust is always a question which does not have a straight answer. The question is whether you r ready to bear d pain of a probable breach of trust. So people generate their own ways. They say "i trust u partially" this is even worst then non-trust. This wil land u in double-trouble n you may loose out on something that you deserved.
For example- the shooting star can either be trusted or not trusted but it wont make a difference even if we dont. But if we trust it to fulfill our desires n secretly fear that it may not, that results into double-whammy. You stay into d grip of fear all d time n if wish is granted, it does not bring happiness .. It brings just a sigh of relief. So d wish was fulfiled but u stil remain unsatisfied as you could not taste d icecream as you were scared of cough n could .. So u take a medicine as a protection n finally manage to take one slice but d medicine made d taste even more dreadful:-P:-D
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So i say.. Trust is always 100% or their is no trust at all. You cannot trust a person 99%. That wud come under d category of non trust. So always have d balls to trust someone COMPLETELY. And its not in case of your lover or friend or companion.. But it also applies to yourself. Trust yourself completely n never doubt ur ability. If YOU cannot trust Yourself, you cannot trust others. DONT LOOK OUT FOR SHOOTING STARS.. Be A SHOOTING STAR N FULFILL D WISH OF THOSE WHO MATTER TO YOU D MOST :) :) :)
Yet we believe that its a good omen. Yet we believe that it wil fulfill our desires. It simply means d things or person about whom we know nothing, are considered more trustworthy. We question our dear ones a number of times for something that we assume according to our sensibilities. A shooting star is a wonderful sight from a distance but just go near it..;) it may make u feel like sitting in a furnace. But d persons who r close to our heart r difficult to trust as in case of a book, which is difficult to read when too close, but from a distance its perfectly readable. This is d dilemma that everyone faces in life. To trust or not to trust is always a question which does not have a straight answer. The question is whether you r ready to bear d pain of a probable breach of trust. So people generate their own ways. They say "i trust u partially" this is even worst then non-trust. This wil land u in double-trouble n you may loose out on something that you deserved.
For example- the shooting star can either be trusted or not trusted but it wont make a difference even if we dont. But if we trust it to fulfill our desires n secretly fear that it may not, that results into double-whammy. You stay into d grip of fear all d time n if wish is granted, it does not bring happiness .. It brings just a sigh of relief. So d wish was fulfiled but u stil remain unsatisfied as you could not taste d icecream as you were scared of cough n could .. So u take a medicine as a protection n finally manage to take one slice but d medicine made d taste even more dreadful:-P:-D
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So i say.. Trust is always 100% or their is no trust at all. You cannot trust a person 99%. That wud come under d category of non trust. So always have d balls to trust someone COMPLETELY. And its not in case of your lover or friend or companion.. But it also applies to yourself. Trust yourself completely n never doubt ur ability. If YOU cannot trust Yourself, you cannot trust others. DONT LOOK OUT FOR SHOOTING STARS.. Be A SHOOTING STAR N FULFILL D WISH OF THOSE WHO MATTER TO YOU D MOST :) :) :)
Wednesday, February 16, 2011
Punjabi tadka
Every culture has its own way of celebrating their occasions. Till now i had an acute knowledge of my own culture .. The rest was just an idea which i acquired via movies (which i love watching) and readings here n there. But i got an unprecedent opportunity to visit one of common friend's bro pre-wedding bash. She was a PUNJABI or rather a SARDAR n to everyone who does not know this(which i did not know before) there is a considerable difference between a Punjabi and a Sardar.
I was completely unaware of that until i actually reached d venue. I was told by my *friend* that its just a pre-wedding ritual ceremony but when i reached there , not only i realised that it was lavish n stylish but i was sooo underdressed for d occasion. I spent almost ten mins outside d actual venue just thinking should i enter should i run from there.Finally motivated myself by giving a lecture to my mind that looks n dressing does not matter n how u behave n what u think n blah blah blah n finally entered d arena!!
The first thing i noticed when i entered was all girls were really tall n all guys were wearing kurtas with their sleeves up.
The food was mouth as well as eyes-watering considering the level of spice!
Ladies were dressed at their best n everybody looked like my mom considering even my mom is well built n tall:-P.
We were threatened that if we dont have food now then we may not get it later even if its left. And i quickly grabbed a plate n filled d belly to d extreme.
Then there came d best part... THE D.J!! And to my surprise, i could only find females running to shake a leg which was unbelievable as i wud never see that in my world. Guys were dragged every now n then. I noticed an unforgettable scene.. The DJ was been played at its loudest n there was this small kid, sitting with spoons, chairs in front of him, trying to match d beats of the music. Its turned from funny to exhilarating when he pulled up another chair as two chairs were incompetent to match d beats of 400db of sound n d kid was so engrossed in doing so that he did not realise around 50 eyes from all directions watching him. That moment cannot be expressed in words. At that time, i actually got d literal meaning of LMAO!!!
That was one memory i took it with me while returning back. Looking forward for d actual marriage .. May god bless d lucky couple!!!
I was completely unaware of that until i actually reached d venue. I was told by my *friend* that its just a pre-wedding ritual ceremony but when i reached there , not only i realised that it was lavish n stylish but i was sooo underdressed for d occasion. I spent almost ten mins outside d actual venue just thinking should i enter should i run from there.Finally motivated myself by giving a lecture to my mind that looks n dressing does not matter n how u behave n what u think n blah blah blah n finally entered d arena!!
The first thing i noticed when i entered was all girls were really tall n all guys were wearing kurtas with their sleeves up.
The food was mouth as well as eyes-watering considering the level of spice!
Ladies were dressed at their best n everybody looked like my mom considering even my mom is well built n tall:-P.
We were threatened that if we dont have food now then we may not get it later even if its left. And i quickly grabbed a plate n filled d belly to d extreme.
Then there came d best part... THE D.J!! And to my surprise, i could only find females running to shake a leg which was unbelievable as i wud never see that in my world. Guys were dragged every now n then. I noticed an unforgettable scene.. The DJ was been played at its loudest n there was this small kid, sitting with spoons, chairs in front of him, trying to match d beats of the music. Its turned from funny to exhilarating when he pulled up another chair as two chairs were incompetent to match d beats of 400db of sound n d kid was so engrossed in doing so that he did not realise around 50 eyes from all directions watching him. That moment cannot be expressed in words. At that time, i actually got d literal meaning of LMAO!!!
That was one memory i took it with me while returning back. Looking forward for d actual marriage .. May god bless d lucky couple!!!
Wednesday, February 9, 2011
The Blue-Eyed Girl!!
She is highly inflammable. She can be dangerous n she is d blue eyed girl.
If u ask her to dance, she wants a floor, good music n mood. If u ask her out then u need to be d perfect human being!
She is amazingly talented n suprisingly hard-working but completely lazy at times. She wil study according her own concept n still others may feel that she mugged up all. She is supremely confident n is always instinctive but never confused as she knows what she wants (n deserves more than that) from life.
She is not a gold-digger but instead has a midas-like-touch. She is completely an emotionally materialistic person n shrew to d core when situations demand. She has this amazing ability to suprise n shock in any situation n has a knack of bringing d rarest of smiles.
She can carry off even heavenly bodies as accessories with sublime ease n innocently wud say "huh" when somebody makes fun of her. She has lovable friends around which pamper her like a baby angel which may make any other girl jealous. But she is not jealous of other girls n if she is, then probably nobody in this world may find that out EVER!
A complete foodie which is not suprising considering where she comes from n never fears n extra flabs (though wil crib everyday specially while having food :-P) She respects intellect n dreads stupidity though performs it herself on a numerous occassion. Extremely stubborn n rigid at times but she can bend it like beckham wenevr she wants to! Stupendously passionate n destructively possessive. If u give her ur whole life, PROBABLY she may be satisfied but when she deserves every bit of it... Why not?!!
Exhibits orthodox behaviour in unorthodox situations n vice-a-versa. She is pretty , she is shy .. She is d one who can make a man cry .. She is poised , she is hostile but what can u do except to just try .. She is amiable , she is capable .. Highly toxic but still stable!! She is so hot , but she cares a lot .. No one can be like her cause she is d only one amongst d lot!!
I believe her, i trust her .. I know for a fact that she wil have an exuberating career!
I wanna go on n on but cant as m lucky enough to have d above girl in my life n still a lot needs to be explored.. So here i end as i feel short of words.. My blue-eyed Girl is waiting for me as i relish d sound of d humming birds!!!!!
If u ask her to dance, she wants a floor, good music n mood. If u ask her out then u need to be d perfect human being!
She is amazingly talented n suprisingly hard-working but completely lazy at times. She wil study according her own concept n still others may feel that she mugged up all. She is supremely confident n is always instinctive but never confused as she knows what she wants (n deserves more than that) from life.
She is not a gold-digger but instead has a midas-like-touch. She is completely an emotionally materialistic person n shrew to d core when situations demand. She has this amazing ability to suprise n shock in any situation n has a knack of bringing d rarest of smiles.
She can carry off even heavenly bodies as accessories with sublime ease n innocently wud say "huh" when somebody makes fun of her. She has lovable friends around which pamper her like a baby angel which may make any other girl jealous. But she is not jealous of other girls n if she is, then probably nobody in this world may find that out EVER!
A complete foodie which is not suprising considering where she comes from n never fears n extra flabs (though wil crib everyday specially while having food :-P) She respects intellect n dreads stupidity though performs it herself on a numerous occassion. Extremely stubborn n rigid at times but she can bend it like beckham wenevr she wants to! Stupendously passionate n destructively possessive. If u give her ur whole life, PROBABLY she may be satisfied but when she deserves every bit of it... Why not?!!
Exhibits orthodox behaviour in unorthodox situations n vice-a-versa. She is pretty , she is shy .. She is d one who can make a man cry .. She is poised , she is hostile but what can u do except to just try .. She is amiable , she is capable .. Highly toxic but still stable!! She is so hot , but she cares a lot .. No one can be like her cause she is d only one amongst d lot!!
I believe her, i trust her .. I know for a fact that she wil have an exuberating career!
I wanna go on n on but cant as m lucky enough to have d above girl in my life n still a lot needs to be explored.. So here i end as i feel short of words.. My blue-eyed Girl is waiting for me as i relish d sound of d humming birds!!!!!
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